我父母當年感情很好。我父親是因為經商失敗，被詐欺，之後破產，處理債務後，變得很喪志，以現在來講不知道算不算憂鬱症？他想離開故土，反正他就離開台灣了，後來變成我們跟著母親。
我母親要養活我們，要填補感情的空虛，她的生活被煩惱填滿了，已經沒有餘裕來聽孩子們雞毛蒜皮的小事，所以，我很早開始談戀愛，很想往外跑。剛接觸心理學時，我形成的解釋是：因為從小沒有父親，所以我對人、對異性比較敏感，會有一些投射，會從裡面希望滿足自己一些東西。後來，我覺得我並沒有在這套理論中得到多大幫助，反而是「完型」那套，在心理學上就是說，這樣子的過程有它存在的意義，它已經變成我之所以為我，很正面而且很重要的一部分。
人都是要做自己最快樂，愈認可自己的人，會愈有魅力。如果為了愛情，你必須犧牲、配合和委屈，一旦做過頭，愛就沒有了。
My name is Manli. I was Junchu's lover. We were engaged to be marriade,
but a year ago, I died suddenly in a car accident.
What do you actually do all day long? Don't you say you were't filming
anymore? Where do you disappear off to all day? Sansan says she
This house is too big. There are still a lot of places I've never been to.
Could you show me around? Is something wrong? What do you
Oh, I blinked in this one. The others are very good, you are very photogenic. Someday
when I become old and ugly, will you still love me? Junchu... Will you marry me? Fine,
Dear listeners, let us continue with yesterday's story. Junchu, with no means, broke Manli's
heart and he deeply regrets it. After a few days of torment, he finally decides to write her a
